Realize that you are going through this experience to 'learn' something. Don't judge the experience that you are going through right now. Look for what it is that you are getting from this experience. Maybe it's to know your own strength, or maybe it's to show you how coming from love can empower you.

Only you can know that because it is your experience. Ask yourself what it is you are getting from going through this experience? Don't judge yourself, don't judge the other person, and don't judge the experience. Become clear of the outcome that you want and then just observe. From that space of observation, you will be able to hear your intuition guiding you in a way that will create the outcome that will be most supportive for you in the moment